Date Swap

Me and Bob have been alternating Sundays with Frank and Bridgit (my brother and sister in law) for dates! If it's our turn for a date, they come over here and watch the boys for 3 hours, and vice versa. And I cannot tell you how much I have come to look forward to these Sundays. When you are in baby mode it is so easy to lose sight of the importance of couple time. It's also been a good form of birth control. While we love our nieces and would always always be there for them if they ever needed us to be...4 children is A LOT of work and we are dead by the end of those 3 hours. But it's worth every last second.